Fears for my d's future

[mggt]

Hello all i have been bouncing around on this site alot of what i read is how horrible BPD relationships are.  Sounds like they are doomed forever to be blone so sad I know the feelings i have had about my own d and have said many times i dont like her and i am her mom so who would put up with all the craiziness sorry not pc,  i have had so much heartache over these last years with my d i just feel it will never get better who will love her when we r gone she deserves to be loved because it is not her fault she was born this way .  i strongly belive that this is a brain disorder who knows so much we do not know about the brain i am trying to come to the realization that this is just one crazy roller coaster up and down all around  and it never stops we have tried so hard to get her help but nothing seems to help all the t says is well imagine how she would be if u did not give her  all this help  i have to tell u this just does not help how unfair that such a beautiful young lady was doomed to this awful dreadful disease how awful for everyone that has a loved one with this diagnosis all i do is pray and hope try to have patients with her because it has been a long road i remember one t saying it is like a marathon but i want to stop running and  slow down to enjoy my daughter and grandaughter and not cringe when the phone rings fear of something terrible and then fear it wont ring always worried  for her

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders