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« on: February 16, 2013, 08:37:18 AM »

2 weeks from today is my planned moving day for my daughter and I to move back into our house with my BPDh. We've been in our own apartment for over a year. She's very excited. I am too, but with a touch of fear- fear of things reverting back to bad after I'm there. My husband has been going to counseling over the past year, and I continue to marvel at his changed behavior. Yesterday we went on a college visit with our daughter; he only had 2 hours of sleep after working 3rd shift, but he still went all day, walked around in the cold, we went out to eat with the 6 other people we were with, and he was friendly and talkative! It was just like night and day the way he would have been a year ago... .  if he even went, he would have complained all day, would have wanted to go home instead of out to eat... .  it would have been a miserable day. I am just praying that his change is real and he won't change once I actually live there again. Has anyone else had a similar situation?
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