"In a Relationship... " Already?

[MakeItHappen]

It's been a while since I posted. Felt compelled to today.

My ex BPD (w/NPD traits), that never posted a single thing about our relationship has just posted that she's "in a relationship" with the new love in her life.

I can't help but laugh out loud about it. My next thought is, I hope it fails.

Don't really like thinking those thoughts because it's not that nice.

But then again, was she ever nice to me?

It stings a bit and I know I'll get over it.

Can't help but think it's been posted like that to pull at my heart stings... .  

Anyone have some thoughts on this?

Thanks.

[blecker]

My next thought is, I hope it fails.

You don't have to hope.

She will suffer the same fate as you if she is lucky. There are worse fates than breakups with borderlines.

I know it hurts but at some time during your journey the hurt will turn to gratitude to be free of such a sick and twisted personality.

[MakeItHappen]

Now I'm getting angry and sad.

I wish I could let it all go and not care.

[fakename]

my ex tried dating right away we broke up... .   one guy didnt want anything to do with her cause she needed 24/7 attention,

the other guy dumped her after 3 weeks... .  

dont worry, the relationship will fail. but i know it stings

[wanttoknowmore]

That action pretty much confirms she has BPD. History will repeat... .   the new victim will be painted black after a few months and will be discarded like toilet paper. Enjoy the drama... . Laugh and wait for the excitement when he is painted black and he will be licking his wounds... . poor guy... . I feel for him... . he just doesnot know he is drinking sweet poison just like we did.

[MakeItHappen]

That action pretty much confirms she has BPD. History will repeat... .   the new victim will be painted black after a few months and will be discarded like toilet paper. Enjoy the drama... . Laugh and wait for the excitement when he is painted black and he will be licking his wounds... . poor guy... . I feel for him... . he just doesnot know he is drinking sweet poison just like we did.

Sweet poison is indeed what it was.

[mango_flower]

So many of us here have had that same thing happen!  We should start a club... .  

The emotions are confusing aren't they?  You're devastatingly sad, but also angry, hurt, your self esteem takes a battering, you start wondering if she ever really loved you... .  

One quote that helped me is "The best predictor of the future is the past" 

Distract yourself - stay busy - spend time with friends.

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