hi all,
i was a member of this site some time ago and left as i was doing ok. i've hit a bump in the road and am back to try to resolve that bump (i'll post further on the foo message board) and gain some further emotional peace.
BPD has been like having multiple wrecking balls in my life. my grandmother, mother, aunt and older sister have it. mostly BPD 'queens and waifs' while my father was a violent sociopath and my younger sister NPD. the only person i had a decent, non abusive relationship in my childhood was my grandfather. so i'm sure you can imagine the issues its caused me.
i recently went nc with the whole foo, told one of the passive/aggresive NPD's where to go and have been trying to pick up the pieces ever since.
anyhoo, thats me, hope to chat more to you soon and gain some empowering insights and hope to ultimately provide some for others
