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! You have located a great site here! I have found this place to be filled with support and encouragement! I think it is a good idea to concentrate on healing for yourself. You need to take care of you because being in any type of relationship with someone who has BPD is very stressful and time consuming. For us, it is our young teenaged daughter who was abandoned at birth by her biological mother. I would suggest you also check out the relationships board here!
