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We're not broken, just bent
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May 15, 2013, 02:44:33 PM »
There's a song playing on the radio right now a lot, and its words keep getting stuck in my head:
We're not broken just bent
And we can learn to love again
I know I'm taking the words out of context, but these are such positive and encouraging words to me in my current situation trying to heal from a difficult childhood. It's true that I'm not completely broken... . just bent. And I am learning to truly give and receive love.
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I love that lyric too. John Mayer's "Shadow Days," really speaks to me too:
I'm a good [wo]man with a good heart.
Had a tough time, got a rough start.
But I finally learned to let it go.
Now I'm right here, and I'm right now
and I'm open knowing somehow
that my shadow days are over.
Same deal, as I think the context is a little different (I think this song was about his relationship with Jennifer Aniston), but these lyrics apply.
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One of the ones I've been listening/singing to is Sara Bareilles "Once Upon Another Time"
"Just yellow lines and tire marks
And sun-kissed skin and handle bars
And where I stood was where I was to be
No enemies to call my own
No porch light on to pull me home
And where I was is beautiful
Because I was free"
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It's so true. At the worst of times I felt broken, but I am learning just how amazingly resilient the human spirit is. I am experiencing a real transformation in my life. Hooray for being bent and not broken!
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