Stooping to his level

[Depression = 72% of members]

... . I refuse to do stoop to his level today and the smart a$$ passive agressive responses feeling like I have to defend myself. Today I feel it's better to be away from him then with him and more than half the time it is that way. I love my H and want him to get help but I can't help but feel like this is NOT what I want the rest of my life. I guess I just have to change my way of thinking. I don't know. He has agreed to see someone as I mentioned on an earlier post, but we've just had one session. Maybe it's his way of lashing out because it's hard for him to deal with the fact he has a problem, but all night he was talking about how bipolar he was and making sarcastic remarks to such.

I just have a "whatever" attitude today. I know I'll get a thousand text messages ranging from I miss you and wish you were close, to the sarcastic condescending passive aggressive BS... . I'm not handling this well the last few days.

He's off work today.

[Jeansok]

... . I refuse to do stoop to his level today and the smart a$$ passive agressive responses feeling like I have to defend myself. Today I feel it's better to be away from him then with him and more than half the time it is that way. I love my H and want him to get help but I can't help but feel like this is NOT what I want the rest of my life. I guess I just have to change my way of thinking. I don't know. He has agreed to see someone as I mentioned on an earlier post, but we've just had one session. Maybe it's his way of lashing out because it's hard for him to deal with the fact he has a problem, but all night he was talking about how bipolar he was and making sarcastic remarks to such.

I just have a "whatever" attitude today. I know I'll get a thousand text messages ranging from I miss you and wish you were close, to the sarcastic condescending passive aggressive BS... . I'm not handling this well the last few days.

He's off work today.

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[Rockylove]

turn off your phone 

[Jeansok]

Then ill here how ignored he was... . But yeah for sure

[atcrossroads]

BPD's sure do hate to me ignored.  Take care of yourself - it sounds like there is a lot going on here.  Listen to your gut.