more weird holiday behavior

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We had a fairly good birthday for me. Except that it was two weeks early because uBPDmom was "too stressed out", and I still ended up with $300 of compulsive presents, irrelevant to my shopping tastes, which I specifically asked not to get. And she requested my boyfriend do an expensive decorative house improvement project, for free, which we just did for the boyfriend's parents (difference; the inlaws PAID for theirs). I told her no.

And she kept taking jabs at an outfit I wore 10 years ago in a conversation directed at the boyfriend.