Hi FineTime,
You have been through a lot, and I'm sorry about the breakup of your marriage. That is really difficult.
How are things proceeding with the divorce? How are you doing?
Understanding what we have been through - our true reality - is very hard. So much is not as it seems. This is because our understanding of what has happened is based on our view of the relationship. Our partner's view was very different. Our senior members on
[L3] Leaving: Disengaging from a Partner with Borderline Personality can help you understand the 10 common misconceptions that most of us struggle with as we disengage and look at ways to deal with them.
Join us on the Leaving board and share your story. You will find lots of members who can relate. We're glad you're here.
heartandwhole