this forum is a great thing.
healing is hard work and when ur still wanting the ex it becomes even harder.
i have so amny ups and down, 30 day N/C but really starting to want to hear from her but scared of what i would hear from her or about her.
i know thats just the last of the hope dying.
for now all i kknow is im going to make it and for now no one is leaving me cheating on me blaming me or what ever
i really need to start getting out more and building a new life but all my friends are married and home bodies i dont wanta full into the bar thing i did that 10 years go when split with ex wife it lead to no good and lead to this in the long run.
sucks not know where life is going or how to get in control of it
i pray God helps us all
I'm sort of in the same boat. Only have a few really close friends, but at this point in our lives, I'm the only one thats not married and with kids. So getting people out is pretty hard. Forunately I play in a good cover band, now. And 80% of my weekends are busy. But last time I was really feeling disconnected and wanting to get out, I started doing things listed at meetup.com. Depending upon where you live, theres probably something happening that intersts you. And if not, its good to get out and do stuff that doesn't interst you, just for the socialization aspect.