----Again, I have the sense that since I waited days before responding to his text, he is now giving me "the silent treatment' i read about in the lessons?
Can't say whether this is the silent treatment or simply part of the way your relationship has evolved, a normal pattern so to speak; it has happened before, correct?
It's great that you're reading the lessons
Have you read the communication tools, SET and DEARMAN?
I've found that speaking
my truth in a thoughtful manner has really helped
our relationship. No blame or judgment calls. Support, empathy and truth goes a long way... .
What is that you would like him to hear and understand about yourself?
We lead by example