Met with an old friend earlier today, haven't seen her since the BPDex fall out. She has told me the things my BPDex has said about me throughout the breakup, after a few minutes I just said
, enough, it's the equivalent to hearing today's rap music= pure garbage!
Truthfully, does it hurt? No not really. I want to let everyone know that whatever they say, don't let it get to you. They're frantically hiding and panicking behind the walls they put up.
For me to get upset at what was said about me is the equivalent of being upset when someone with an IQ of 70 calls me stupid, not to sound superior or patronizing, just using that in hopes of getting my point across
If anything like so many on here have said, we have more than enough compassion and we
genuinely cared for them since we are all on here trying to make sense of the huge what the heck tornado. We are not perfect and we are filled with flaws but don't ever let their distortions and childish projections hurt/get to you. There's more than life than the words of a pwBPD, Words and emotions that change at the drop of a dime.
Focus on yourself, not what they say or anyone says for that matter. I don't know any of you personally but because we are here tells me that we all have compassion and the capability of love and that makes you all great people
