Lol Made my night

[Depression = 72% of members]

It was my BPD ex's birthday yesterday. His first bday in four years that we haven't been together. Of course, I didn't contact him to wish him a happy bday, since he dumped me this summer four days before my own bday. The fourth time I got coldly and cruelly dumped by him in two years.

Out of curiousity, I looked at his Facebook tonight and all of his posts have always been set to private. Well, tonight he posted a PUBLIC post in ALL CAPS thanking everyone for their bday wishes and telling them he LOVES THEM ALL! I especially love the all caps. It makes it easier to type when you're drunk, you know.

Lol! I appreciate his public post for my benefit. It's nice to know that my not wishing him a happy bday upset him and he needed to let me know how many other people care about him.

Ugh, so pathetic. He's still trying to hurt/one up me, after four years together of him hurting me over and over. I guess it's progress that I laughed out loud when I read his post.

And now, back to not looking at his Facebook! I imagine by this time next year, I will have forgotten when his bday is. A girl can hope!

[triangleheart]

It was my BPD ex's birthday yesterday. His first bday in four years that we haven't been together. Of course, I didn't contact him to wish him a happy bday, since he dumped me this summer four days before my own bday. The fourth time I got coldly and cruelly dumped by him in two years.

Out of curiousity, I looked at his Facebook tonight and all of his posts have always been set to private. Well, tonight he posted a PUBLIC post in ALL CAPS thanking everyone for their bday wishes and telling them he LOVES THEM ALL! I especially love the all caps. It makes it easier to type when you're drunk, you know.

Lol! I appreciate his public post for my benefit. It's nice to know that my not wishing him a happy bday upset him and he needed to let me know how many other people care about him.

Ugh, so pathetic. He's still trying to hurt/one up me, after four years together of him hurting me over and over. I guess it's progress that I laughed out loud when I read his post.

And now, back to not looking at his Facebook! I imagine by this time next year, I will have forgotten when his bday is. A girl can hope!

[Clearmind]

Birthdays are a tough time for someone with BPD.  It’s possible it was not directed towards you personally but rather all FB friends as a declaration of wanting acceptance, likes, comments to appear popular because he doesn't feel that way.