I broke NC and was told this:
Mariya, let me be clear. And I am sorry if this hurts you. I hate you for what you did to me and my family. I hate you for what you said. And I feel absolutely disgusted every time I talk with you.
How can anyone say that to another human being?
The disorder has a progression, and if you've entered the Hater stage, that's what it sounds like. IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU. It's about the borderline making sense of their world by making you the scapegoat, it has to be that way, it will always be that way. Unless of course you actually did something to cause legitimate hatred, for you to know and decide.
Anyway, once the relationship has run its course those types of interactions are the norm, you probably found it hurtful, and don't make yourself wrong for contacting him/her, but remember that if you want to do it again, maybe print that post and put it somewhere prominent?
BTW, be careful about posting your real name.