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October 30, 2013, 01:18:58 PM »
... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'
She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.
I feel bad but I just deleted her text
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Quote from: strikeforce on October 30, 2013, 01:18:58 PM
... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'
She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.
I feel bad but
I just deleted her text
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I know that wasn't easy to do Strike.
But you did the right thing.
You looked out for Strike.
Your well being first.
Maintain that NC.
Hang in there.
You know more intrusions... .
Are inbound.
Keep her on other side of that NC wall.
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Im just waiting to see how she escalates
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She will probably... .
Come at you... .
From predictable angles... .
And if she sees... .
That... .
That doesn't get you to reply... .
Will switch angle of intrusion.
Anything... .
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The last time I was NC, as you know, she hit me with an abusive message that forced me to reply.
She will probably go from: 'Hows you?' - 'You OK? Your not talking' - 'Fine i'll leave you alone' - then the abuse will start.
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