Home page of BPDFamily.com, online relationship supportMember registration here
July 08, 2025, 12:04:30 PM *
Welcome, Guest. Please login or register.

Login with username, password and session length
Board Admins: Kells76, Once Removed, Turkish
Senior Ambassadors: SinisterComplex
  Help!   Boards   Please Donate Login to Post New?--Click here to register  
bing
Experts share their discoveries [video]
100
Caretaking - What is it all about?
Margalis Fjelstad, PhD
Blame - why we do it?
Brené Brown, PhD
Family dynamics matter.
Alan Fruzzetti, PhD
A perspective on BPD
Ivan Spielberg, PhD
Pages: [1]   Go Down
  Print  
Author Topic: 3 days of peace...  (Read 459 times)
strikeforce
****
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Posts: 336


« on: October 30, 2013, 01:18:58 PM »

... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'

She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.

I feel bad but I just deleted her text

Logged
Ironmanrises
********
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 1774


« Reply #1 on: October 30, 2013, 06:40:35 PM »

... .Broken with a 'how's you? xx'

She told me on Sunday she's been suicidal for 3 months before we broke up and since we split up earlier this month.

I feel bad but I just deleted her text

In bold.

I know that wasn't easy to do Strike.

But you did the right thing.

You looked out for Strike.

Your well being first.

Maintain that NC.

Hang in there.

You know more intrusions... .

Are inbound.

Keep her on other side of that NC wall.
Logged
strikeforce
****
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Posts: 336


« Reply #2 on: October 31, 2013, 10:41:25 AM »

Im just waiting to see how she escalates
Logged
Ironmanrises
********
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Posts: 1774


« Reply #3 on: October 31, 2013, 10:53:59 AM »

She will probably... .

Come at you... .

From predictable angles... .

And if she sees... .

That... .

That doesn't get you to reply... .

Will switch angle of intrusion.

Anything... .

That will get you to respond.
Logged
strikeforce
****
Offline Offline

Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Posts: 336


« Reply #4 on: October 31, 2013, 11:01:34 AM »

The last time I was NC, as you know, she hit me with an abusive message that forced me to reply.

She will probably go from: 'Hows you?' - 'You OK? Your not talking' - 'Fine i'll leave you alone' - then the abuse will start.
Logged
Can You Help Us Stay on the Air in 2024?

Pages: [1]   Go Up
  Print  
 
Jump to:  

Our 2023 Financial Sponsors
We are all appreciative of the members who provide the funding to keep BPDFamily on the air.
12years
alterK
AskingWhy
At Bay
Cat Familiar
CoherentMoose
drained1996
EZEarache
Flora and Fauna
ForeverDad
Gemsforeyes
Goldcrest
Harri
healthfreedom4s
hope2727
khibomsis
Lemon Squeezy
Memorial Donation (4)
Methos
Methuen
Mommydoc
Mutt
P.F.Change
Penumbra66
Red22
Rev
SamwizeGamgee
Skip
Swimmy55
Tartan Pants
Turkish
whirlpoollife



Powered by MySQL Powered by PHP Powered by SMF 1.1.21 | SMF © 2006-2020, Simple Machines Valid XHTML 1.0! Valid CSS!