Im going NO CONTACT, none, zero and when i see her in public i will ignore her as if she doesnt exist. She has ruined my thoughts of marriage and trust in a relationship. If i thought that she had one once of empathy id write her a letter to tell her how disgusted i am in her and she is the worst human being that i have ever had in my life. But im sure she would twist it around and blame me for it, like i made her cheat on me.
If you are in a relationship with a BPD, run, run like hell, never turn back. Maybe you can get the determination like i did to never look back. This is a line that cannot be crossed with me. I will not tolerate cheating, i will not fail to enforce this boundary.
Big Smushy, no more.
I made mine cheat. Yup. She cheated because of a girl I dated before we even met. And yes she knew all about it but you know what, she simply could not live with that fact anymore so she cheated with a foreign exchange student half my age. Her 'Soulmate'
Who she has already recycled for his best friend... .
I take it you dont have children with her... .If not consider yourself damn lucky. I had three little angels with mine and will have at least some contact with her for another 10 years because of it. Oh how I relish that day coming... .
