Quirky Things

[Depression = 72% of members]

That your ex did... .

Mine had the abandonment fears.  Bad dissociation at times. Definite fear of engulfment. If I wanted to get something out of the kitchen (eat or drink) and we were already in bed she would get out of bed and follow me. She also insisted I take baths and showers with her. There are many more that I will think of. The most convenient thing though was when she wanted to do something I didn't want to do I would tell her OK.  I knew if we waited an hour she would change her mind. Lol

[Waifed]

That your ex did... .

Mine had the abandonment fears.  Bad dissociation at times. Definite fear of engulfment. If I wanted to get something out of the kitchen (eat or drink) and we were already in bed she would get out of bed and follow me. She also insisted I take baths and showers with her. There are many more that I will think of. The most convenient thing though was when she wanted to do something I didn't want to do I would tell her OK.  I knew if we waited an hour she would change her mind. Lol

[RecycledNoMore]

Hmm, mine didnt like to eat in public, or even when we were just hangn out at his home, hed always insist that I eat something at the same time, odd how he had no problem yelling and screaming in the middle of town at me, once he even through a full bottle of milk at me while I sat in a bus stop... go figure... .

[Waifed]

Another thing... .she was so obsessed with her body and using special creams and lotions yet she would have unprotected sex with people risking STD's etc. 

[Hollygoeslightly]

- took his cat for a walk around the block.

- insisted he didn't want to shower more than every three days as he liked being "grungy" (only found this out near end luckily!)

- had Facebook freakouts where he couldn't "handle" it anymore and would delete his account.

- told quite elaborate stories that I'm never quite sure were truthful at all (eg one day going to his uni library there was a guy not letting him unless he bought drugs... .)

Sure there's a lot more!

[Ironmanrises]

Sex on demand. Literally. Like i was a huge dildo for her. I had to get aroused and fully functioning on her command. And this became especially pronounced in devaluation. Pardon my vulgarity.