taking a break, need advice

[simplyasiam]

ive been with my BPD g/f for just over six years now, as im sure many of you here know its been a wild ride at time.

we split up 10 months ago but never lost contact. a few weeks ago we started dating again. a few days ago she told me she confused about her feeling for me and for the guy she was seeing when we were apart.

I left her home Monday morning other than a txt asking if I had her sons backpack in my car ive had no contact with her.

im want to be with her again and try and build a new r/s but at this point im not sure ill ever hear from her again.

should I make contact with let her know im here for her or do I just give her space and wait?

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[briefcase]

There is no harm in letter her know how you feel.  Since you know the relationship, if any, will be a "wild ride" it might be a very good idea for you to spend some time studying and practicing the staying tools in our Lessons here.  That way you are prepared if she is receptive to you and wants to renew the relationship.  Good luck!