Well she must not be getting any attention

[How to communicate after a contentious divorce...]

Yesterday and last night, and into this morning... .not a word, silence, no calls, no texts. She was obviously occupied, receiving attention. And you know what I mean by attention.

But now, texts are coming in, voice mails "hey, call me" , etc. so, she must be alone. Funny how that is scripted with my ex. But, again, she was with friend(s). Nothing going on, according to her in past conversations. Ya,right! I'm not stupid... .ain't buying it and you shouldn't be selling it.

I refuse to be part of her ex bf scmuck patrol. All her other exes stay in contact with her, or her with them. But when they're not at her beckon call... .I'm next.

No... .had enough of this mind f$&@k. I won't be a part of her "ex crowd". They want one thing... .and she's likely to give it.

[State85]

Yesterday and last night, and into this morning... .not a word, silence, no calls, no texts. She was obviously occupied, receiving attention. And you know what I mean by attention.

But now, texts are coming in, voice mails "hey, call me" , etc. so, she must be alone. Funny how that is scripted with my ex. But, again, she was with friend(s). Nothing going on, according to her in past conversations. Ya,right! I'm not stupid... .ain't buying it and you shouldn't be selling it.

I refuse to be part of her ex bf scmuck patrol. All her other exes stay in contact with her, or her with them. But when they're not at her beckon call... .I'm next.

No... .had enough of this mind f$&@k. I won't be a part of her "ex crowd". They want one thing... .and she's likely to give it.

[Turkish]

 good for you.  it shows you are a real person,  not an empty shell unlike those other idiots.  refuse to play the sick game.

[Mutt]

I put it into a context sans PD.

What message am I giving to my ex if she can go and bed other men, lie to me about it, then not apologize or act as if nothing has happened?

The message is that I don't have boundaries, she can do whatever she wants without accountability, no self respect for myself and I'm at her beck and call.

There are a lot of guys that will line up for an abusive woman.

No thanks.