I need to know how to respond

[frenchie]

Hi... can someone point me to the 'how to' section? I need to know how to respond (?) when my mother makes her 10 million comments a day about how I:

a) don't work all day, she does

b) only do 1/2 the dishes

c) should cook for her since I live here and *see A

d) need to vacuum, dust, scrub toilets, etc

blah blah blah

[Sitara]

There's a bunch of communication topics under the Workshop section. https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=36.0

Check out those with COMMUNICATION in the titles.

COMMUNICATION: Overview https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=90775.0;prev_next=next gives an overview of the common techniques.  Maybe there you can find something that fits for you.

Just check over the titles in the workshop section and see if anything strikes you as potentially helpful.  There's also a lot of useful information in  Questions about BPD and BPD Resources

Hope you can find something that helps!

[frenchie]

thanks!