Please help with phone message

[Depression = 72% of members]

My xuBPD left me a phone message which I just heard today, been away, on sunday

He said,  I hope you have a better year this year than last.

This is my last call.  Take Care,  bye.

Why ?  Any thoughts anyone,  it has made me feel very unsafe.

[zsazsa]

My xuBPD left me a phone message which I just heard today, been away, on sunday

He said,  I hope you have a better year this year than last.

This is my last call.  Take Care,  bye.

Why ?  Any thoughts anyone,  it has made me feel very unsafe.

[santa]

It's because he's making the New Year his personal deadline for getting over you. It's just an attempt to manipulate you. I'm sure he'll crack in a few days and try to contact you again. It's no big deal.

[fromheeltoheal]

Not sure why you feel unsafe, it didn't sound threatening to me.

Anyway, I'm assuming he means he hopes you have a better 2014 than 2013.  The best thing you can do is make sure 2014 is a great year, a year of healing, growth, fun, surrounded by supportive people, and if he's anything like my ex, a year without him in it.  Feel free to go ahead and have a year like that.

It probably won't be his last call, but take him at his word for now and hope it is.  Take care of you!

[simplyasiam]

if your ex is anything like mine don't think that's a good bye or that hes done, hes fishing and will keep fishing till he finds the bait that makes you bite.

if your done block him in everyway you can.