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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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LilMissSunshine
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« on: January 24, 2014, 07:15:48 AM »

 If your pwBPD is tempting you to break contact or stalking you listen to this video and remember:

www.youtube.com/watch?v=8v_4O44sfjM

No I can't take one more step towards you

Cause all that's waiting is regret

And don't you know I'm not your ghost anymore

You lost the love I loved the most

I learned to live half alive

And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are

Running around leaving scars

Collecting your jar of hearts

And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold

From the ice inside your soul

So don't come back for me

Who do you think you are

I hear your asking all around

If I am anywhere to be found

But I have grown too strong

To ever fall back in your arms

I learned to live half alive

And now you want me one more time

And who do you think you are

Running around leaving scars

Collecting your jar of hearts

And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold

From the ice inside your soul

So don't come back for me

Who do you think you are

And it took so long just to feel alright

Remember how to put back the light in my eyes

I wish I would have missed the first time that we kissed

Cause you broke all your promises

And now your back

You don't get to get me back

And who do you think you are

Running around leaving scars

Collecting your jar of hearts

And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold

From the ice inside your soul

Don't come back for me

Don't come back at all

And who do you think you are

Running around leaving scars

Collecting your jar of hearts

And tearing love apart

You're gonna catch a cold

From the ice inside your soul

Don't come back for me

Don't come back at all

Who do you think you are

Who do you think you are

Who do you think you are
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LilMissSunshine
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« Reply #1 on: January 24, 2014, 08:53:07 AM »

 Or... . if your wondering about what the future holds for your X and the "replacements" definitely watch the video.  It's hauntingly validating.
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« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2014, 11:50:35 AM »

love this song! Thanks for the reminder lilmiss  Smiling (click to insert in post)
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LilMissSunshine
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« Reply #3 on: January 24, 2014, 11:59:58 AM »

Yeah.  My favorite part is at the very end where she literally takes back her life/heart and leaves him laying on the ground like a pile of dog hit_. 
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« Reply #4 on: January 24, 2014, 03:04:40 PM »

Oh lil miss, yes this song perfectly describes my feeings toward the ex

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I went through a period of not being able to listen to or enjoy music, I can now, Im stronger

This song haunted me in the r/ s

Now it strengthens my resolve...

Thanks for the reminder LM
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« Reply #5 on: January 24, 2014, 03:15:30 PM »

Yes this song has always made me think of our relationship, the funny thing is when it came out a couple of years ago my BPD husband hated it, so much so that he would switch it off when it came on the radio, I believe it's because even he could relate it to his behaviours even though I know he would never admit it.

We are actually in a very difficult place at the moment, he is avoiding me and not speaking for a week now and think this song would make me cry if I listened to it now.
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