Just met w ex's dad about child visitation. Brought up all kinds of feelings that I don't even recognize yet. I wanted to take the high road, but felt like he threatened me at one point. I told him I wasn't living in their FOG anymore, and to tell u the truth, I went off. I threatened back and I didnt feel good about it. Yet, I couldnt handle it anymore. I do feel good that I stood up for myself a little empowered, but want more to take higher road in the future without giving away my power and self respect. Thanks
Arn... . it probably felt good to get that validation by confronting him, but at this point, it might be best to go NC with all of them, as much as it is possible, and do everything through the courts. That is your wife's FOO, where her disorder likely came from. Toxic people. Think about reasoning and engaging with them is like doing the same with her. No win. Win in court... . for you and you child.
