Court

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

I went to court today over the items my exgfwBPD didn't return. I was sued by university housing for its non return. Surprise, she didn't show. I shouldn't be surprised. Secretly I hoped she'd do the right thing and return the stuff. Sometimes this feels so vindictive.Nothing short of my complete and utter demise is going to make her happy. Guess the good news for her is almost nothing is left of me and my life.

[coastalfog1]

I went to court today over the items my exgfwBPD didn't return. I was sued by university housing for its non return. Surprise, she didn't show. I shouldn't be surprised. Secretly I hoped she'd do the right thing and return the stuff. Sometimes this feels so vindictive.Nothing short of my complete and utter demise is going to make her happy. Guess the good news for her is almost nothing is left of me and my life.

[Popcorn71]

Why do they keep our things?

My ex took lots of stuff that he knew meant something to me and he knew I couldn't replace.  These things were useless to him.  When I texted him, asking him to return them, he ignored the text.  Yet he has had the cheek to ask for some items he left here.  When I told him he could only have his stuff when he returned mine, he accused me of being petty and mean.  He never did return my things and I still have his.

Why do they do this?