To be fair, many professionals may not diagnose BPD since (1) the individual is often in Total Denial if it were to be stated and (2) in the past most insurances wouldn't pay for extended therapy since it was considered to be largely untreatable. It's different now, there are therapies now such as DBT, but the person has to be willing to work at it, quite a few won't choose a path to recovery.
Also meds might help to reduce the extreme behaviors, but the underlying cause is still there. It's not like Bi-polar which is primarily a hormone imbalance that meds can address, as I understand it.
That is a a good, but scary point you made about insurance companies not covering treatment. I surely hope that doctors are not misdiagnosing because they are thinking about making a buck. At same time, they are people like rest of us and you see all the pain management dispensers around. Some are just out for a buck, besides, its expensive to be a doctor so they gotta earn a living i suppose
I know insurance doesnt cover my wife and her DBT treatment. I wish it did. Unfortunately, my job does not provide insurance so stuck with individual policies which means
a. the best individual polices grandfatherd in before Obamacare do not cover mental illness
b. I cannot find a doctor that does DBT that is NOT out of network with Obamacare's best policy. Of course, the Obamacare out of network only covers 40% AFTER a $3000 seperate deductible and costs twice as much premium wise
One thing I have learned through all of this is that our country does not address mental health at all, and all the new plans which I hoped would help basically do nothing because nobody accepts them that is qualified or the costs of new plans exceed the old plans
... one thing through this all is while I do not know how sick I am, I have learned that I am sick. I am either the monster she portrays me as or I am sick in that i believe alot of what she says or i put up with it. I do not like either at all. I do not understand why things changed so much. I do not know how to leave knowing that she will not make it without me. I do not know how to leave period without feeling evil and broken