I am sorry for you Peiper! A rough and nasty time to be faced when she sticks to it!
The more you reach out the more you will be pushed away, remember that.
Maybe when her mind is more back to baseline, you can talk with caution, SET, etc.
So, yes, experienced it that exBPDw went through with it. If you feel so, the read my intro post.
The week before, making a photo shoot with kids and as a family, the day before walking hand in hand.
D-day, she would leave temporarily for her rest… meaning divorce.
Anyway, no effort of my had any effect ,didn’t want to talk about it, consequences for kids, financially, etc.
A background force (her sister, although that one knows her history) supported ex in her decision.
So is she is filing, prepare for a difficult time and procedure.
For a BPD feelings become facts, therefore prepare your facts.
On the legal Board you find great advice. The other day, I reacted at the topic below.
https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=229948.0;allI sincerely hope you can alter the course of these events!
