Planing a weddign with a pwBPD

[maxsterling]

Just a vent - other things I can pick up the slack, go about my business and let her go about hers (if she wants to).

But try planning a wedding with someone who:

- is obsessed about money and how much things cost.

- can't make a decision about anything.

- gets overwhelmed dealing with others, especially family.

- is paranoid about what others think of her.

- is so completely impatient that she can't understand why a business person won't call her back by 8 am on a holiday weekend.

I'll try to go about my business and not worry about how this could turn into a dysregulated disaster.  I wonder if she thinks about why previous boyfriends told her she was not marriage material. 

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