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VIDEO: "What is parental alienation?" Parental alienation is when a parent allows a child to participate or hear them degrade the other parent. This is not uncommon in divorces and the children often adjust. In severe cases, however, it can be devastating to the child. This video provides a helpful overview.
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Hurtbeyondrepair27
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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: single (1 month)
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« on: October 13, 2014, 09:11:23 AM »

My BPD doesnt have friends really other than fb

i know of he could he would replace me in a heartbeat.

What happens when they dont have supply?

he never really tried to date or have friends before

I am his first relationship.

possibility he would be trying to reach out now

to actually date and have friends?

this is pure curiosity... i have no interest in

having him back.

it just everyone elses ex has serious supply.

mine doesnt at all.
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Algae
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« Reply #1 on: October 13, 2014, 11:24:24 AM »

My BPD doesnt have friends really other than fb

i know of he could he would replace me in a heartbeat.

What happens when they dont have supply?

he never really tried to date or have friends before

I am his first relationship.

possibility he would be trying to reach out now

to actually date and have friends?

this is pure curiosity... i have no interest in

having him back.

it just everyone elses ex has serious supply.

mine doesnt at all.

My exBPDgf dumped me with no supply about 3-4 times.  This most recent time however she HAS supply so it's different.  But I can speak for the times that she has not had supply.

She mostly just moped around and tried to use her family as supply.  Posting pictures of her going out to the beach with her family, and out to eat, etc, thinking it would all make her happier... but in the end it didnt.  She realized that I wasn't the cause of all her depression, and that she was her own cause for it.

Basically she thought that without me, she could go out and start fresh.  Which backfired and she ended up feeling alone.
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« Reply #2 on: October 13, 2014, 11:47:11 AM »

My BPD doesnt have friends really other than fb

i know of he could he would replace me in a heartbeat.

What happens when they dont have supply?

he never really tried to date or have friends before

I am his first relationship.

possibility he would be trying to reach out now

to actually date and have friends?

this is pure curiosity... i have no interest in

having him back.

it just everyone elses ex has serious supply.

mine doesnt at all.

My exBPDgf dumped me with no supply about 3-4 times.  This most recent time however she HAS supply so it's different.  But I can speak for the times that she has not had supply.

She mostly just moped around and tried to use her family as supply.  Posting pictures of her going out to the beach with her family, and out to eat, etc, thinking it would all make her happier... but in the end it didnt.  She realized that I wasn't the cause of all her depression, and that she was her own cause for it.

Basically she thought that without me, she could go out and start fresh.  Which backfired and she ended up feeling alone.

Yup same with mine. So familiar.
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Climbmountains91
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« Reply #3 on: October 13, 2014, 05:59:06 PM »

My BPD doesnt have friends really other than fb

i know of he could he would replace me in a heartbeat.

What happens when they dont have supply?

he never really tried to date or have friends before

I am his first relationship.

possibility he would be trying to reach out now

to actually date and have friends?

this is pure curiosity... i have no interest in

having him back.

it just everyone elses ex has serious supply.

mine doesnt at all.

My exBPDgf dumped me with no supply about 3-4 times.  This most recent time however she HAS supply so it's different.  But I can speak for the times that she has not had supply.

She mostly just moped around and tried to use her family as supply.  Posting pictures of her going out to the beach with her family, and out to eat, etc, thinking it would all make her happier... but in the end it didnt.  She realized that I wasn't the cause of all her depression, and that she was her own cause for it.

Basically she thought that without me, she could go out and start fresh.  Which backfired and she ended up feeling alone.

I could of copy and pasted that Algae, mine never had supply when i was dumped 4/5 times but now he has disguarded me and his daughter (even though it was me who put it n/c 2 weeks going now) he has tons of supply with these stupid immature sheeps that he mirrors and idealizes. Not a love interest as of yet though, i dread if that day ever comes, so taking it day by day. He was distant and not bothered in the end.

Sometimes when we've gone n/c for say a week hes said "oh I've missed you" but his voice was cold, no meaning.

He goes through his mum now since n/c to have contact with his daughter but hasn't made effort since day one since she was born anyway, what can you do. 
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