End of the rope, please help

[doxylady]

We have a 23. Yr old daughter who suffers with this, the damage is off the hook, and it is so sad to her crushing her 6 year old daughter, we have custody... .getting ready to completely cut her off and out... .end of the rope, please help.

Our objective is to better understand the struggles our child faces and to learn the skills to improve our relationship and provide a supportive environment and also improve on our own emotional responses, attitudes and effectiveness as a family leaders

[Rapt Reader]

Hello, doxylady & 

I'm so sorry for the pain and confusion you are going through regarding your daughter; especially with a grandchild involved, it can get so complicated and hurtful and scary! We know what you are going through, and are so happy you found us 

I'm not sure if you've had the chance to do this, but I recommend that you check out every single link to the right-hand side of this page... .It's so empowering and enlightening to learn about how your daughter's mind works, and what you can do to make things better in that relationship. Also, there's an Article that is incredibly insightful and helpful: Supporting a Child in Therapy, even if she is not being treated at this time. Please check that out; the advice in that Article is very, very helpful.

Another Article that I highly recommend is here: How to get a Borderline into Therapy. It will give you some ideas and practical advice as to how to help your daughter with her troubles... .Please know that you have found the right place for support, insights and advice, doxylady. We are here for you in this endeavor