My mother had several affairs while with my father. My parents broke up for good when we were off their hands - my mother began an affair with a man where she worked. This man was also married. Anyway my mother did eventually marry this new man. Even now, in her sixties - my sister has just informed me she is having an affair with an old and wealthy man who wants to marry her. She is sleeping with this man but doesn't want to leave her husband because, she says, she simply doesn't fancy the man she is having an affair with. My father is a classic NPD. He has several ladies on the go. Yes indeed I do have FOO issues.
Glad to know I am not the only one with fam issues. My mom is Bpd and my dad is a sociopath. Dad has never been faithful to any of the girlfriends he has had, nor any of his 4 wives he has had. My mother isn't in her sixties yet but don't know how long this marriage will last seeing as how they had a separation 8 months into the marriage. Best thing is to just learn lessons from the families.
