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I've had virtually no contact, one call from her a month ago. This last week I started getting blocked calls in the very early morning. I talked to my T and he said it's her, --check her Facebook page and he'd bet she was single again. I blew off checking, but got another blocked call this morning so I did check and sure enough my replacement and his daughter in law have been deleted from her friends list. She cheats, treated me like carp, drug me threw the court system on lies, got a restraining order and she's trying to engage again? Completely crazy!
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Quote from: peiper on December 13, 2014, 07:36:16 AM
I've had virtually no contact, one call from her a month ago. This last week I started getting blocked calls in the very early morning. I talked to my T and he said it's her, --check her Facebook page and he'd bet she was single again. I blew off checking, but got another blocked call this morning so I did check and sure enough my replacement and his daughter in law have been deleted from her friends list. She cheats, treated me like carp, drug me threw the court system on lies, got a restraining order and she's trying to engage again? Completely crazy!
BPD and Mental Illness is Very sad and Painful.
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Yes it is. To a normal person it makes no sense. And I doubt that it does to them. They react to the emotion they have at the moment without thinking of the outcome.
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I agree peiper. It's not fair after all you have been through.
Quote from: peiper on December 13, 2014, 07:36:16 AM
sure enough my replacement and his daughter in law have been deleted from her friends list
I notice now my ex would delete people on FB to sometimes add them later when they were split black.
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The phone calls are nuts. It's got to be her. Blocking her number because of HER restraining order, knowing I could report her to the court. These people truly are insane. Never have I broken up with someone and then tried to get them back, least of all at 3:45 am.
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Quote from: peiper on December 14, 2014, 12:04:32 AM
The phone calls are nuts. It's got to be her. Blocking her number because of HER restraining order, knowing I could report her to the court. These people truly are insane. Never have I broken up with someone and then tried to get them back, least of all at 3:45 am.
She may not even want you back. She just may want to see if she has any control over you Does he have any power.
Hang tight Peiper... .You are doing great and making good decisions.
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Quote from: Infared on December 14, 2014, 12:34:28 AM
Quote from: peiper on December 14, 2014, 12:04:32 AM
The phone calls are nuts. It's got to be her. Blocking her number because of HER restraining order, knowing I could report her to the court. These people truly are insane. Never have I broken up with someone and then tried to get them back, least of all at 3:45 am.
She may not even want you back. She just may want to see if she has any control over you Does he have any power.
Hang tight Peiper... .You are doing great and making good decisions.
Thanks man. From past experience ( six times in a little over a year and a half) she's trying a recycle. My T thinks so too. Their beds never stay cold for long he keeps saying.
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