Don't do it! I'm 17 days no contact. It does get easier... .I promise. You're already 3 days in... .keep going strong. You will either get ignored or get a response that will make you feel even worse. Do not give him power and control over you!
Wow, 17 days I can't even go a week without crumbling. Good for you. Who initiated it?
If you break nc then you'll never get off of the train that I call the nonstop to nowhere... .
"The nonstop to nowhere," love that ! Lol. Sadly that's about it. We've had so many drawn out "discussions" (which always involve me taking most of the blame) I think I'm going to vomit. Nothing ever changes.
Please do anything other than contact your ex!
Hmmm, where is that rattlesnake? Lol
Contact would make your last three days of pain for nothing. Plus you'd be giving up your control.
See and that's the thing. To him, it's all about "winning" and "losing". He even said so once himself. He needs control, and gains it by any means necessary. This almost seems like a twisted game. I don't comprehend this at all. To me, relationships are about compromise and give and take.
Don't do it!
The response you are hoping for is not the one you will get. You will either get totally ignored or be abused. It's either emotional shut down for them or Raging.
This is very true. His raging is so cold and cruel it rips into my soul. He alternates that with silent treatment and idealization. so I never know where I stand.
I'm sorry you got no reply, how hurtful =( Would it have been worse though if you got one that was nasty?