New here :)

[Klhunter00]

Just trying to gain a better understanding of my boyfriends BPD and his triggers.  Knowledge is power!  Thank you all for this group.

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[waverider]

 

Indeed it is, that power needs to be harnessed to better you, and not to try to control someone else though.

Do you understand your own triggers? These are the easiest ones to control so we like to start with those.

[Crumbling]

 

   Thumbs up for finding us!

[howcanI?]

  Welcome aboard! I'm a pseudo-newbie myself, but the group here has made me feel understood, validated, and loved in a very short period of time! Remember, you cannot change him, but you CAN change the way you react to him!