You're still engaging with him, which is understandable since it hasn't been very long and the holidays and birthdays tend to exaggerate emotions. Best to make a list of all the unacceptable behaviors you chose to tolerate when you were in it, and read it and add to it as much as you need; it's a focus shift that may just keep you off the phone, and the amazing year that is 2015 is just around the corner. Take care of you!
Thank you! I was just making a list in my head...
You have an amazing year as well!
