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« on: December 29, 2014, 11:34:17 PM »

I would really appreciate a reading over of my previous post and feedback from you all on this board, as I feel it more relevant to my situation.  

In light of the holidays (she has been home from uni for break) and no contact, I am curious, and have updates as well, thanks.  

https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=237731.msg12535011#msg12535011

Update: I am no longer moving to the city I had originally planned, and am moving to a different one, she however doesn't know this, and it should be a surprise to her when she finds out. What do you think she will feel/think? She now has tattoos that make reference to her illness (Didn't have any tats before). I always thought she didn't know, it seems she did, so that brings me some closure, however I still don't think she understands it to the degree that I do. She also seems to have gained a noticeable amount of weight. I would imagine its due to the lack of exercise and poor eating habits. She has hung out with her friends on this break but I haven't so much as heard a peep (Not that I expected too) My thoughts on this: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=238439.msg12539204#msg12539204

After having read my previous posts and new update what do you guys think about the situation? Her thoughts, feelings, ect? My handling of the whole thing, next moves ect. Thanks again to those of you who read.        
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« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2014, 11:46:36 PM »

Hi BPD3103,

You mentioned that she has tattoos that make a reference to her illness.  I am curious to know what does it say?     

Do you want to contact her?  What do you think your next move should be?
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