Hello, Sweetestx & I'd like to join
formflier in welcoming you to our site.
I'm sorry for the troubles you are dealing with, and very happy to hear that you've been able to extricate your child from the trauma of this relationship. You've found the right place for insights and advice; I'm very glad you are here
Since you are still in the relationship and living with your boyfriend, there are many things you can do right now to calm things down, and stop the bleeding:
Before you can make anything better, you must stop making it worse (this is also found in the
links to the right-hand side of this page).
But, are you fearful for your safety? If so, then please make a Safety Plan; this will help:
Safety First. It will give you good ideas of what is and is not acceptable, and how to protect yourself. It will also probably answer your question about removing yourself from your situation.
If your boyfriend has BPD symptoms, behaviors and traits, the links I've given you will give you a very good idea of just how his mind works and what you can do to deal with him better. If you check around this site, you will find lots of videos, Workshops and Articles that will help you... .These
Feature Articles (they are also found in the links under the 4 photos at the top of the Staying Board's list of threads) are very insightful and full of tips to help you, Sweetestx... .
Please tell us more of your story, and let us know how safe you are. And ask your questions; read all you can, and know that we are here for you
