OK - there is a new wrinkle. I thought he was making this up, but it does say in our order that each parent has "phone or computer assisted" access to the children any time, with best efforts not after 9:30.
Therefore, it's actually in the order. If I want to complain about how he's been acting and change it, it seems I'd have to go to court.
I never even noticed that. It's such a burden. Anyone have any ideas on how to respond to him now? Guess I have to provide it. But I am going to tell him to clarify a few things.
Gosh, I hate having to go back and forth with him.
How does this translate to his constant contact with YOU occupying YOUR time ALL the time? How does ANY time equal ALL the time where it interferes with YOUR life?
If he calls or texts hand the phone to the kids to do as they will? The relationship is theirs, not yours.
Perhaps you need to talk with your attorney and his attorney and avoid BPDxh altogether before taking it before the judge? Frankly we're not available to anyone for "anytime" intrusions.
Nip it in the bud, nip it in the bud!