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The last time I saw my ex was February 3rd. I already dedicated a whole thread to it.
At one point while we were laying in her bed together she told me how this one guy she met off Tinder and was seeing casually stopped talking to her once she got into a relationship with some other guy she met off POF back in January. The relationship only lasted less than two weeks, and I'm pretty sure the same day he broke up with her she was back on Tinder. And in her bio she wrote, "I just got dumped via text." She text messaged me on that same day too out of the blue to tell me she was making YouTube videos now. Very random since I hadn't heard a word from her since they got into a relationship.
Anyway, she went on to mention that night on February 3rd how he (the Tinder guy) sent her a text message on that same day she texted me. She figured it was because she was back on Tinder and he saw her on there again. She called him out on it but he denied ever seeing her on Tinder and just wanted to say hello. She called BS. But yeah, then she went on to say to me in a really cocky manner how "they [the men she dated] always come back." As if she is some real prize or something.
One of her old ex-boyfriends she sort of dated as a teenager who she hadn't seen in many, many years was the one who helped her move back here to where I live.
And then of course there is me, who slowly allowed her back into my life after many months of long-distance LC. When she finally moved back here at the very end of November, I eventually caught up with her one day in mid-December. We just took my dog for a walk. I saw her two more times after that. Once again in December at her place. I went over with my Wii U to just play some video games with her but then she started coming onto me and I had to stop her. The other time was, of course, February 3rd... .She asked me if I wanted to have sex with her via text that day. I feel like she got what she wanted out of me that night after not having been sexually intimate with me in over a year and then just moved on. She's a self-proclaimed nympho, after all, and hadn't had any in weeks.
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