Hello 11 Nonna,
We are happy to have you join our group!
Sorry to hear that you suspect your daughter in law to have traits of BPD and how this is affecting your relationship with your son and grandson.
How does your son view the strained relationship? Does he see any problems with his wife's behaviors and thought processes?
How is your grandson doing? 4 is such a wonderful age of discovery!
I look forward to your reply and learning how to best support you as you find ways to improve your relationships.
lbj