Hi mywifecrazy,
I would like to echo downwhim, the truth has a way of working it's way out.
Our stories are similar. My ex met her boyfriend through the neighbor's, they moved across the street, I have young kids that live at both homes. I stayed put.
I like what you say about letting go of the pain and given them up to God and holding your head high. Keep taking the high road. Their impulsive and selfish actions. He can't look you in the eye and she dissociates because she feels shame and guilt - consequences of their choices.
You sound better mywifecrazy
I think you’re doing the right thing.