FF - I assume you've already had this conversation with her before? That you'd like her to ASK rather than TELL... .or at least answer when you ask. I've seen where you've posted about getting her to stop telling you how you feel and start asking. I've tried that with very little success, but somehow you've done it! Any way you can apply the same method on being asked instead of told what to do?
Umm... .she has told me less and less how I feel... .and has asked... .some... .it does happen.
Yeah... .we've had the conversation before... .not going to keep repeating it on the chores.
She does it her way... .
I'll do it mine... .
FF