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Maggiemc73

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devastated

« on: June 07, 2015, 02:41:44 PM »

we had a home and life together he became distant and broke it off . I left the home and now broken-hearted . we re did a beautiful house together he is over me.


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Mutt

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Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Divorced Oct 2015
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Re: devastated

« Reply #1 on: June 07, 2015, 07:44:57 PM »

Hi maggiemc73

Welcome

I'm sorry to hear that. I can understand how confusing and heartbreaking that would be when a partner becomes cold and distant and we're forced to leave the house

How did you hear about BPD? Is your partner diagnosed?

How long have you been together?

Do you have kids?

It helps to talk.

----Mutt


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Lucky Jim

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Re: devastated

« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2015, 01:41:14 PM »

Hey Maggie, I can relate. Like you, I renovated a home with my BPDxW, yet it all came unglued.

What makes you think your SO has BPD? It sounds like you are in a lot of pain.

LuckyJim


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