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gomez_addams
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Gender: Male
What is your sexual orientation: Straight
Who in your life has "personality" issues: Ex-romantic partner
Relationship status: Almost divorced
Posts: 284


« on: June 04, 2015, 01:56:11 AM »

Mentioned this in another thread.

The stbx uBPDw'sbirthday. I know the MIL --  drama queen -- will egg my stbx on if I ignore it. She (MIL) already texted me the stbx' favorite flowers. THAT isn't happening this close to the divorce. T recommended a simple Happy Birthday email. Someone suggested a boring generic card.

I'm thinking an email will suffice. I don't want her thinking there is hope.

But how do I handle the eventual victim hood? Remind her that she'll be happier back home? There is no reasoning with her, obviously.

I hate situations like this, and I hate how I've become so worried about how she'll react.

Eyes on the prize, I see the L tomorrow.

Gomez

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