Borderline- ex mind blowing games

[Family Court Strategies: When Your Partner Has BPD OR NPD Traits.]

Hello everyone! Almost 2 years since my break up. I am painted black since the day we broke up, and blocked from everywhere.

Yesterday I was in my friend, having drinks. Suddenly she comes by in my friend with his sister ( without we inviting them, but she knew I was there). So I was acting normal, but she did not even look me at the eyes for the next 6 hour, although we were on one table. She was speaking with my friend. We even played cards. After several hours I asked her why does she do it, there was no answer. My friend asked her and she starting blaming me for everything, saying I was nothing to her and that is why she did look at me. I said to her, if I am so bady, please go home, what are you doing here, you came on your will. She did not answer. The next hours passed like this- she talking how bad I am, but still she did not go home. After that she said that she is there, because she is having fun. I have not seen somthing like this- she is crazier that I thought. Not looking me in the eyes, but talking about me in third person ( although I am 10 sm from her). So my question is - what the hell is she trying to do?

[lm911]

Hello everyone! Almost 2 years since my break up. I am painted black since the day we broke up, and blocked from everywhere.

Yesterday I was in my friend, having drinks. Suddenly she comes by in my friend with his sister ( without we inviting them, but she knew I was there). So I was acting normal, but she did not even look me at the eyes for the next 6 hour, although we were on one table. She was speaking with my friend. We even played cards. After several hours I asked her why does she do it, there was no answer. My friend asked her and she starting blaming me for everything, saying I was nothing to her and that is why she did look at me. I said to her, if I am so bady, please go home, what are you doing here, you came on your will. She did not answer. The next hours passed like this- she talking how bad I am, but still she did not go home. After that she said that she is there, because she is having fun. I have not seen somthing like this- she is crazier that I thought. Not looking me in the eyes, but talking about me in third person ( although I am 10 sm from her). So my question is - what the hell is she trying to do?

[rotiroti]

Sounds like you're painted black, pwBPD tend to view the world in extremes -- people are either 100% good or 100% bad. What can they do with someone who they deem as evil? Ignore them

[lm911]

Yes, I am, but what is she doing near the same table with me?