Here are the thoughts from that list that I've had/have: 1, 3, 5, 12, 13, 17, 19.
Do I have BPD? No. Not even close. I'm just a pessimist. So is my dad. It annoys the hell out of my mom.

Remember that a list of thoughts that a BPD has is completely separate from the major traits that define the disorder.
Do you have stormy relationships? Do you have chronic feelings of emptiness? Do you engage in impulsive behaviors? Do you idealize/devalue people?
Remember that a person must meet 5/9 traits to be diagnosed with BPD. I meet maybe one or two; a lot of people probably do.
Most importantly, consider the fact that you are questioning whether you have BPD. pwBPD can't do that.