What do you feel most sad about?

[zundertowz]

Im sad that she thinks Im the horrible one even though she tried to ruin my life

[GreenEyedMonster]

That he blew up his entire life in ten minutes, and how sad he is going to be.

I was his EVERYTHING.  He has no family, no friends.  When he treated me badly after our breakup, he lost my family (who really liked him), his entire group of friends, and the only girl who ever really cared for him (seriously).  This also happens to coincide with the breakup of his band.  He has no full-time job, so no colleagues.  Basically, there are no longer any steady presences in his life at all.  I keep seeing him on social media, grasping at straws, looking for ANYTHING to do where there are other people around.  That makes me really sad.

But trying to save a person with BPD is like trying to save a hornet that's trapped in your house.  Chances are you're going to get stung, and the hornet isn't going to make it out.

[michel71]

I am sad that I thought I found "the one" only to have my heart and trust stomped on. I am sad that no matter how much I loved her, no matter how much money I gave to her, no matter what I tried to do to please her, she only felt distain for me. I am sad that my whole life became about her and I almost lost myself.

I am happy that I am not lost. I am happy that I have a beautiful daughter and good friends and a nice home and a cute dog. I look forward to health and sanity and to a future of peace.

[balletomane]

That we are no longer even friends.

[Sadly]

I am sad that I ever met him

I am sad that I will never feel that intense love and happiness again

I am sad that life played this cruel trick on me

I am sad that I have become a weak, pathetic wreck of a person with no interest in life

I am sad that he is in a terrible lonely confusing place and will never be well.

I am sad that loving him so much I said if I could take his pain I would, so he handed it over but kept it too.

I am sad that I cannot hold him in my arms again

I am sad that he has rejected me

I am just SAD.