Hi Rameses,
It's about the overwhelming guilt and pain I am feeling while reading these early journals of how I hurt her by bailing out of the relationship that many times. It seems to showcase my insanity more than hers.
Then we got married and within 3 months the bizarre, frightening all out rages started. I ended up leaving the relationship 3 more times for safety reasons, all within a 21 month period.
I'm sorry to hear that. I can see how that guilt and pain would be a huge burden. Don't be hard on yourself.
Let's take a look at it from a different angle? A relationship is a two way transaction? Your ex partner also chose to be in the r/s and took you back on the pretext of engagement rings?
Why assign yourself the lion's share of the blame? I think what we can do for ourselves is learning from experiences. What did you learn about yourself and relationships?