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Author Topic: A silly question what month did your Ex BPD break up with you or left you ?  (Read 1155 times)
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« on: November 18, 2015, 08:15:16 PM »

Just wondering, I saw many cases that the EXBPD left in July , I might be wrong but curious to know and if I get to know when they made that move, I might be able to explain why I asked .

Please The month ?
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« Reply #1 on: November 18, 2015, 08:18:17 PM »

July

December

April

June

and November
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« Reply #2 on: November 18, 2015, 08:32:55 PM »

I am sure you did and I understand  Smiling (click to insert in post) It's tough .

Looks to me they change with the change of season ?
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« Reply #3 on: November 18, 2015, 08:34:28 PM »

July
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« Reply #4 on: November 18, 2015, 08:38:50 PM »

March/May/August
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« Reply #5 on: November 18, 2015, 10:04:31 PM »

July
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« Reply #6 on: November 18, 2015, 10:06:14 PM »

July

Hmmm this looks like a patter with other posters. I wonder why?
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« Reply #7 on: November 18, 2015, 10:10:55 PM »

September, May, August

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« Reply #8 on: November 18, 2015, 10:12:44 PM »

Over 2 decades ... .generally between November and April. The holidays were always tough, as it triggered memories from his childhood.

Final exit, June.
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« Reply #9 on: November 18, 2015, 10:22:23 PM »

July
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« Reply #10 on: November 18, 2015, 10:28:37 PM »

May 11 2011

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« Reply #11 on: November 18, 2015, 10:34:42 PM »

First time may.

Second time august.

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« Reply #12 on: November 18, 2015, 10:43:05 PM »

October

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« Reply #13 on: November 19, 2015, 12:37:38 AM »

June, 2 days after my birthday Laugh out loud (click to insert in post).
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« Reply #14 on: November 19, 2015, 12:39:55 AM »

July

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« Reply #15 on: November 19, 2015, 12:47:54 AM »

End of June.
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« Reply #16 on: November 19, 2015, 02:52:57 AM »

September, then January.

Both times the triggers were work related stress IMO.

She couldn't afford to ditch the job - so I was the emotional makeweight that got tossed overboard to 'lighten the load'. Don't think there was anything that relevant about the month I was dumped per se.

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« Reply #17 on: November 19, 2015, 02:55:15 AM »

June for ex wife and I left exgf in may.
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« Reply #18 on: November 19, 2015, 03:13:35 AM »

My ex ended her relationships in October/November

I removed her from my life end of October last contact mid November
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« Reply #19 on: November 19, 2015, 06:02:42 AM »

October

But  July was the first time she told me she had cheated on me causing a catastrophic argument.
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« Reply #20 on: November 19, 2015, 02:45:47 PM »

Finale Exit June
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« Reply #21 on: November 19, 2015, 03:09:42 PM »

First break up was in February. This one mid-July.

what an odd coincidence.
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« Reply #22 on: November 19, 2015, 03:15:42 PM »

April (9 Days before my Birthday), September, November.
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« Reply #23 on: November 19, 2015, 04:53:53 PM »

First week of may every year like clockwork.
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« Reply #24 on: November 19, 2015, 04:55:30 PM »

July for me as well. This year. Good riddance !
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« Reply #25 on: November 19, 2015, 05:35:02 PM »

Mine was more cyclic, like fall and spring... .I believe the event that's looming within those Month's are triggers for them; like the onset of a birthday, anniversary, holiday... .

her birthday was in October and I was damned, couldn't do anything right for her, the cake the present, the party planned... etc... .thus triggering the holidays that followed ... .I was doomed to fail.                 
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« Reply #26 on: November 19, 2015, 05:36:27 PM »

Towards the end of June, a week after we'd been together for 3 years.
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« Reply #27 on: November 19, 2015, 05:36:52 PM »

Hi friends ,

Looks like this is becoming very interesting to follow  , please keep going  ... .
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« Reply #28 on: November 19, 2015, 06:40:02 PM »

July was a trigger month... .the last time I saw him was July, but he was the worst on December... .that's when all his worst behavior happened. Holidays are a problem.
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« Reply #29 on: November 19, 2015, 07:30:50 PM »

August, November
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