Just wanted to say to you all as a new member here.
On the road to recovery!
I was in a ten year marriage to a partner that very likely suffers from high functioning BPD. I have found this site a huge help in understanding why our relationship was so chaotic and it has helped my journey of discovery and healing after it ended. I have benefited from listening to other members posts about their experiences, I find comfort in knowing I'm not alone and that others understand the emotional damage BPD inflicts. After reading posts I now know in time I can recover from the emotional rape I've experienced.
This site has been a real tonic for me! thank you