Confessions and secrets of BPD, cheating, lying and the difference SO's vs fwb

[BPDaddict]

My BPD SO is slow to come clean with Her cheating and slower with the lying, I know more than she thinks (a lot more) but if I confront her with too much, she freaks out (I'm sure most know what i mean) I'm sticking around and if/when there is trust (slow going on this one of course) we plan to wed. I'm not trying to catch her (already have and i know what not to do)or tell  anyone else our business, I am very interested/ curious/ fascinated maybe even morbidly so in this uh, condition and I know I can't save her and she has to help herself but I very much want to understand more and learn as much as I can how she thinks and what all she does (her MO)

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[Turkish]

Hello BPDaddict,

Understanding what makes another person "tick" is helpful. What is your goal here? Maybe this can help to start:

BPD Behaviors: How it feels to have BPD

This is for you. Take a loo at the lessons to the right of the board for more...

Turkish